Anal Sex Tips

 

There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. Some people enjoy the sensation of a finger inserted into their anal opening while others may find the insertion of a dildo, vibrator, or penis very arousing and stimulating. 

Many are not open to the suggestion or experimentation with this body part as they are scared it will cause great amounts of pain, or the thought just grosses them out. In any case, be sure to communicate with your partner to avoid bad reactions. If your partner refuses, don't try to force them as it will be horrible experience for both of you.

If you and your partner both consent to the idea of Anal Sex, using something as large as a penis is definitely not the way to get started. Starting by getting the area comfortable and then moving up to intercourse is the way to go. 

Cleanliness is essential with virtually all forms of this type of play. A bath or a shower is a great primer, and can be the start of the festivities. Once your penis or sex toy has been inside the rectum, don't put them inside anywhere else until you have washed them. Carelessness in this regard can cause a very serious infection. Make sure to use copious amounts of a good lubricant, and start as slowly as possible the first few times.

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Most people believe that anal intercourse hurts and that it is always an uncomfortable experience. This is quite simply false. As with any form of intercourse, the anus, like the vagina, must become used to the activity. Any woman who remembers her first time having sex probably recalls a painful experience. In fact, the first couple of times were probably painful and not that enjoyable. Did they stop having sex? In almost all cases, they didn’t. Anal intercourse falls under the same guidelines for both genders; it takes practice to get accustomed to the activity. Pain is usually a sign that something is being performed incorrectly, not that the act is wrong. In most cases pain is due to a few reasons: the receiver is too tense and tightening, the giver is pushing too hard, there isn’t enough lubricant, or that the penis or toy is still too big to put in (based on current experience levels). Using fingers and smaller toys is the best way to get used to the feeling, and it is advised that you increase size a little at a time. Once you have become comfortable with the idea and concepts you will find it very pleasurable.